You Never Had a Week Bad Enough to Call About

The week went fine.

You got up, you went, you came back, and you did it again.

Somebody asked how you were, and you said good; you weren’t lying, exactly.

Nothing happened worth calling anybody about. Nothing happened last week either. That’s most of a year now.

The people you used to look forward to seeing are still in your phone.

You answer them a day late.

You Get Here One of Two Ways

Some people arrive with an evaluation behind them and a name for what they’ve been managing on their own.

An accurate name changes what you aim at. It doesn’t move anything on its own.

Other people have never been tested and never will be, because testing was never the question.

You want the hour.

Something has been running for a while, and you’d like one person a week whose whole job is to hear about it.

Both doors open into the same room, and nobody here is going to ask what qualifies you to be sitting in it.

Your First Weeks Are Mostly You Talking

The work moves more slowly than an answer does.

Early on, you talk, and your counselor listens for the shape of it: what set it off, and what keeps it running now.

Then the two of you pick one thing to change that’s within reach this month.

If a report is what brought you, the handoff into counseling happens in-house.